A few days ago I had a sissy humiliation cam session with my sissy Becky. Becky is a “big gurl” who loved wearing lipstick, stockings, panties and heels. Sissy Becky is also a naughty slut! Most of our humiliation phone sex sessions are on cam as I instruct Becky to fuck h with is sissy pussy a dildo. Often I make Becky eat his own cum. After all if he wants to squirt he should be required to cum guzzle in my opinion.

Becky and I both love sissy humiliation and finding naughty sissy assignments for Becky to perform on cam. Together we came up with the idea that Becky would pop some popcorn, stick a stick of butter up his sissy pussy then allow it to melt and drip out. ewwwwwww right? lol You should have seen Becky straddled over the bowl of popcorn waiting for it to drip out onto the popcorn!  Once buttered I then made Becky eat some before rubbing the clitty and squirting all over the butt butter popcorn! Then he had to eat some more!  It was a great session!

How about a BUTT BUTTER Sissy Assignment for you?

You must report back here, post the results in the comments section below.

Take a stick of VERY cold butter. Stick it inside the sissy pussy. You may want to put a towel down. It takes about 15 mins to really warm up and start dripping. Put on some naughty porn and you may rub the clitty as you wait for  the butter to melt. Both cummies and butter must be on the popcorn. You may then resume back to your movie’s eating the popcorn and if you’ve done a good job eating it all then you get to cum again! Lucky sissy!

Listen up sissies! Yes, this means YOU! All sissy sluts, sissy maids, sissy cucks, sissy dolls, sissy pigs – all who aspire to being a sissy! I have a special announcement for you.

It’s time to stop the crazy roller coaster of purging and accept who you are. After all this time you should realize that its not going to change. You are a sissy. It’s just a matter of discovering and fine tuning your inner girl.

In April I posted an article on www.sensualroleplay.com -

How to Have the Most Fulfilling Sexual Submissive Fantasy Life EVER!

We talked about completely defining your erotic alters and how to find balance in exploring submission and still have your already existing everyday life. If you haven’t read this important article you should do so now.

The Real Mistress Experience

After you have read the above article then go to my link here Ongoing Sissy Training Total Control. My proposal to you is to take a journey and discover yourself. Through open communication we can create a relationship that is truly benefits both of us. Would’nt that be wonderful? Don’t be a afraid. If there’s a will there is a way.

Open Sissy Forum

For those of you still dabbling on the fence I have decided to have a few of my sissies already in the ongoing control program post their reports, assignment request, musings and essays for you to witness. You may ask questions and make comment, however please stay on topic to the discussion or the assignment that sissy is working on. These comments, reports and active training will take place in Ongoing Sissy Training Total Control in the comments area. The newest post appear on top. If you’d like an email notification each time someone post to this area just type “subscribe” in the comment section and check the box below that says “Subscribe to Comments”

Remember that total control means I control your orgasms. It’s how I teach you via punishment and reward. Have a look at the articles and let me know if you have any questions.

This is an article I posted on my other blog Sensual Role Play.  I wanted toe  bring it here because if you read my comment below in COMMENTS I make reference to emasculated males and sissies. I would love to start a discussion about this with you. Its a very personal subject for me. If you would like notices sent via email on any follow ups to THIS topic check the box below your comment before clicking submit!

After reading Ms Ally’s post “Female Superiority: Are Women “Better” than Men?” and viewing the comments on the subject of Female Supremacy I starting thinking about relationships in general. It wasn’t until the “second wave” of feminism (1960’s through the 90’s) that women also became head of household. It didn’t matter how much money they made or how much smarter they were, the men wore the pants and made the final decision for the relationship or family.  Men were dominant and a good wife is submissive to her husband. The woman’s movement clearly heralds the idea that women should have the same rights and be equal to men.

But is gender equality really possible and is it the best solution?

Men have sexual fantasies of being controlled by a strong woman but it seems that it only last until he has an orgasm. The idea of her using him sexually seems more like HIS idea then hers. In my own world of being an independent and self sufficient woman I too can fantasize about “wearing the pants” but does the world really see me this way? And if they do is it accepted as a normal relationship or looked at as an oddity or modern novelty?

Let’s face it; someone is always going to be more dominant in any relationship.

It seems to me that any time there is an attempt at equality that it ultimately turns out to be confusion and someone feeling resentment for settling. Perhaps it’s possible but I have never seen two alpha personalities coexist without great challenge.

When I was in college I was often teased for my controlling nature. In fact many of the men I dated seemed threatened by it and often challenged me. I resented this constant test of wills. I felt very much like a fish out of water and often depressed wondering if maybe I was. It was ok for them in the bedroom but once our clothes went back on the male machismo swung into action. It wasn’t until I learned about BDSM and dominance and submission as a lifestyle that I began to feel like the woman I really was. It allowed me to focus my affection on men that appreciated me being a woman in control. But it still wasn’t a walk in the park. I had to fully accept this part of me, the dominant partner and learn how to nurture the submission I craved from others.

In life there is always a leader to set the agenda and pace of any dynamic.

Only then can there be true harmony without struggle. Otherwise you have too many chiefs and too many Indians wondering what to do. When roles are clearly defined there isn’t any confusion. The key is that both parties ENJOY the position they elect. This doesn’t mean that the submissive is less than the dominant but that someone needs to relinquish control. It’s not really about female supremacy, although in MY perfect world this would be ideal, but a relationship dynamic that follows a ying-yang concept to achieve balance.

I’d really like to know your thoughts on this subject and how you feel about gender equality. I’ve created a poll to get a general idea but would also appreciate your comments. Thanks!

Last night I watched a new series on TLC called “Sister Wives” about a fundamentalist moron polygamous family. They have a large house and within that house each wife, three of them and their own set of children, has her own apt complete with kitchen, den and private space.  I am always fascinated by non-traditional relationships and although I don’t follow the dogma behind it can’t help but wonder how wonderful it would be in a femdom – sissy relationship.

I imagine myself living in a big house with a bevy of devoted sissies and slaves where we all live happily like a family yet with a common culture and belief.  The sissies would be like sister wives, attending to the house, chores and my male slaves.  Obviously I would be the head of the house yet rely on a chain of command in order to make the house run more smoothly. So there would be first wife and so on.  Since the sissies are the “ladies of the house”  this gives them voting power and power over males.  I would love to watch a sissy topping a male slave! How hot is that? “Oh Mistress Sissy, can you handle that disobedient fucktard over there?” lol

But I think the job my sister sissies would enjoy the most is the monthly milking of male slaves and bulls. That’s right, some slaves are assigned the title of BULL and these lucky boys get to fuck me. The other small dicks are purely minions and ass lickers. Some get assigned to the various jobs:

• Footstool or some other type of furniture or household item; ashtray, throne, (wink) I could get very naughty here!
• Lawn and Garden
• Floor licker
• Hamper Skunk
• Entertainment – whatever my whim that day
• Cock sucking faggots – while my friends and I watch
• Game pieces – human darts, hunting, yard chest
• Extra large xmas ornaments for the super  large tree outside. They would be tied by the balls and left to dangle.
• Tease toys – like peter wind them up and watch ‘em squirm.

Of course the Sissy Wives in addition to being housekeepers,  cooks, ladies in waiting, strippers, whores and ??? they completely supervise the males. This includes the BIG COCK bulls that need cocks drained OFTEN.  Of course EVERYONE is chastised and I have a master lock system and only ONE key that remains secure around my neck.

Yes, it would be a perfect life for me!

Now be sure to subscribe to my blog sissy! That is an order!

This picture is the road that goes back to a brook where my favorite fishing spot is. Here in Virginia they do a lot of trout stocking and this I plan on spending a lot of time outdoors camping, kayaking and fishing. If I have reception I’ll Twitter you and take you with me.

In fact on my Wish List I’ve added a new rod and reel along with many other outdoor camping things. My birthday is only a week away! Go buy me something to use outdoors.

Thank you S again for the lovely gift card. I actually purchased a new sleeping bag with it. KISS

A Change of Plans

My three college girlfriends were planning on coming up May 6th, going camping and fishing then the weekend at my house for a wild party. Last year these girls came up, experienced female domination, sissies, cuckolding and many other kinky sexual fantasies. One friend, Sara really got hooked and desperately tried to get her hubby to get a little kinky with her. Through email I explained my tricks and she tried them all. She was able to get him in panties and try a strap-on dildo, however he pretty much throught she lost her mind. So Sara couldn’t wait to leave her married life behind and come play with me and my friends. She was literally counting down the days.

Sara’s all packed, ready to roll and thinking of any excuse to come early and stay a few extra days. Her hubby comes home from work early the other day, goes to move Sara’s suit case in the closet, it falls open and reveals a bunch of sexy nighties, a brand new strap-on dildo, lube, vibrator and other sex toys. Sara comes home and he’s sitting there waiting for her with all this stuff laid out. He was pissed. He also called Laura’s husband who then called Vicki’s husband and they all had to cancel. I could kick Sara’s ass.

But I’ll still going to spend a few days trout fishing and Saturday night, the night of my birthday I am having a few special friends over. (wink) My chastised boy toy and slave girl Isabel along with a visit from LaRue. Should be pretty hot and one thing for sure, it will be all about me and I won’t have to share that cock!

Now go buy me something. You know I’m worth it. If you’d like em to get it right away I suggest an Amazon Gift Card.