Being a sissy is just who you are. You might be able to fool the world with your boy self but deep down inside you’ll always be a sissy. Some sissies have realized this at a very young age and tried to ignore it while . . . → Read More: Sissy Training “How to Make a Sissy Budget”]]>

Teaching You How to Be The Perfect Sissy

Being a sissy is just who you are. You might be able to fool the world with your boy self but deep down inside you’ll always be a sissy. Some sissies have realized this at a very young age and tried to ignore it while others kept it hidden only to share it with a select few or reserved for masturbation fantasies.

A problem I see over and over is a sissy getting out of control with his spending.  I do understand how hard it much be when you are a lonely sissy and all those naughty feelings start to well up inside of you. Your little stupid stick starts twitching and you’re mind goes straight to the gutter! That’s why ALL sissies need an owner to control them.

The most important lesson a sissy in training learns first is how to create a good budget.  In this lesson I will teach you how to make a budget so that you can purchase training tools, have phone sex sessions with your Goddess,  buy pretty things for you and your wonderful owner (tributes) and not worry about how you’ll pay your bills.  You should outline and report your budget to your Mistress owner so that she can help you and make sure you stay on your budget. If you are in my training then you will be required to provide a monthly budget report. Keeping to your budget is a very important part of the training and breaking budget rules can result in your dismissal.  Therefore, as you can clearly see, a sissy budget is essential to sissy training.

The Sissy Budget Outline

The first thing you do is outline all of your expenses. This includes mortgage/rent, utilities, gas, car, etc. Basically anything you spend money on including entertainment such as subscriptions, Starbucks, lunch money, all the extra little things that add up. If you smoke you need to include this.  If you are subscribed to porn sites a list and the amount needs to be reported. It may take a little time but this budget is important.

Now carefully look at your budget.  There are things that you must pay. Then there are “extra’s”  and these go into a column. Extras are anything like Starbucks, lunch out, dinners, cigs, books, porn sites, whatever you spend money on that is not essential to your home and work.  Once you have your Extra Column start selecting things you feel are just wasteful spending and put them in a new column called Stupid Stuff.

Now total up your sissy budget items and start subtracting from your monthly income. Let’s use an example because I  know some of you are total bimbo’s.

Let’s you make 4000.00 per month and your overhead, Must Pay List, totals 3000.00 this leaves you 1000.00

The typical sissy training budget should be %10 of your monthly income. So if you you make 4000.00 a month you should figure out a way to reserve $400.00 per month for your sissy training, right? But what if you find you don’t have $400.00 a month? Then you need to carefully go through your Extra List and Stupid Stuff List.  Start with stupid stuff and if needed over to Extra List. If you can’t pull out at least %10 then you’ll need to discuss this with your owner and come up with a plan to earn it.

Now that you have the monthly amount you can start creating your sissy training budget.

You have $400.00 per month.  Half of that is for phone sex sessions with your trainer. This means 200.00 a month is just the budget for your calls.  For LDW that would mean a 20 min call per week!  That leaves you with 200.00 extra. Now you split that and half goes to your mistress owner every month and the other half is your Sissy Allowance. Your half can be spent on panties, sex toys, sissy clothes, adult movies, sexy audios, etc. Of course you have to ALWAYS as permission to buy ANYTHING that is not on your MUST PAY LIST.  If you want something that cost more then your Sissy Allowance that month then you have start a Sissy Piggy Bank and save a portion of your monthly allowance into your Sissy Piggy Bank until you have enough saved. Each month you need to report the amount in your Sissy Piggy Bank and how you spent your Sissy Allowance.

The amount of $400.00 is just a basic example. If you make more great! Remember the formula;

%10 of your total monthly income is reserved for your Sissy World 

1/2 of your sissy budget goes towards call

1/4 of your sissy budget goes towards Mistress Owner Tributes

1/4 is your Sissy Allowance

If you make extra money at any time that can go into your Sissy Piggy Bank AFTER you have used half to buy your mistress a gift. Remember that she is taking her extra time emailing, directing and keeping you focused on your Sissy Training. It is not just phone sex calls she’s providing, therefore you must be conscious of the extra time she spends on you. You can show your appreciation with gifts, purchasing her sexy audios with your Sissy Allowance (this support her work)  and ask her if there are any task you can do to help her. She is very busy making her own income and could probably really use a good Sissy Secretary. Don’t commit the time unless you’re sure you can.

You don’t  have to be rich to be a good sissy but you do have to be consistent and sincere. A selfish sissy will waste someone’s time and make it all about him and his needs. This sissy gets nowhere.  A mistress owner will choose you because you’re sincere and follow direction well.  This is the most important. If you have very little money you should not try hording all of her time with unnecessary reports and emails that take her away from making income. You’ll find a way to balance it so that you both get what you need.

Any questions? Post your comments below!

Follow the steps exactly. You can post pics on your own Facebook account and share them with the Humiliated Sissy group at Facebook. You can do this anytime over the weekend devoting at least a few hours. Please comment here at my blog giving me details on your . . . → Read More: Sissy Assignment for Weekend 06/18/2011]]>

Don't You Want to Make Me Happy?

Follow the steps exactly. You can post pics on your own Facebook account and share them with the Humiliated Sissy group at Facebook. You can do this anytime over the weekend devoting at least a few hours. Please comment here at my blog giving me details on your assignment. It’s fun for me to hear about your adventure ESPECIALLY if it’s humiliating and daring!

Skin Care for Sissies

This weekend everyone will purchase a good lady’s face wash and moisturizer. This can be an assignment on its own. From now on you’ll wash your face daily in the morning and at night with your lady’s face wash and then morning and night apply a lady’s moisturizer. I recommend Oil of Olay or go to Macy’s and ask for help. If you ask for help they will try and steer you towards men’s skin products. You tell them you only are permitted to use ladies skin care products.

Sissy Make-up

LOReal Make Up counter or area at the drug store. You will buy the nail color below.

“Pro Manicure Nail Polish – Color = I Pink I’m in Love”

Once you have this nail color you’ll find a lipstick that matches that is two shades darker. If someone walks up to you and ask you in you need help ask them if there is a sample you can try on and try it on in the store. Yes it’s humiliating, it’s suppose to be. I want to hear all about it.

Preparing for your Sissy Assignment

Go home, wash your face and apply your cream. Make sure you have on your prettiest panties. Soak your feet in some pretty scented soapy water. Give yourself a pedi. Look it up online. You may want to get a kit and some foot cream. Once you are done use the nail color I selected above to paint your toe nails.

Next you’ll need a pair of sandals. These can be any kind of sandals that show off your pretty pink toes. You can even use flip flops. Apply your lipstick. Next you will go somewhere in public for at least one hour. You can take a walk in the mall, go back to the drug store for my shopping list or go to Starbucks and have coffee. The more daring the better!

Once you have completed the assignment you may order a salad at McDonalds drive thru and the only dressing you are permitted to have is Sissy Cream or Man Milk. If you’re so lucky to have access to fresh squeeze Man Milk be sure to re-apply your lipstick!

My Shopping List – Below is a list of things I need. Please purchase me at least one and ship to me. Make sure you put a note who it’s from and your email so I can properly thank you and post on my blog and Facebook. I might even send you a free sissy audio!

On the left of this blog is a section called Spoil Me or Tribute Me. The address is there.

Regenerist Regenerating Serum

Regenerist Regenerating Cream Cleanser

Pedi Egg Callus Remover

Moroccanoil Shampoo & Conditioner – You may have to hunt for this need this ongoing and badly, almost out!

LoReal Nail Color – “Apple of my Eye”

LoReal Sheer Juicy LipGloss – “Iced Latte”

My darling special sissy girls… I have a very important topic to discuss with you. I posted a lengthy article at my other blog but it also applies to you and I am seeking a few very special sissy girls that are ready to take the journey and explore . . . → Read More: Making Your Sissy Fantasy Dreams Come True – A Sissy Assignment]]>

Listen carefully darling, this is important

My darling special sissy girls… I have a very important topic to discuss with you. I posted a lengthy article at my other blog but it also applies to you and I am seeking a few very special sissy girls that are ready to take the journey and explore your inner girl.

Once you are done with the article come back here and we can discuss your questions, ideas and concerns in the comment section below.

Click here to read

How to Have the Most Fulfilling Sexual Submissive Fantasy Life EVER!

http://www.sensualroleplay.com/how-to-have-the-most-fulfilling-sexual-submissive-fantasy-life-ever/

I love cock control, orgasm control, tease and denial. I also love cock games and orgasm denial assignments. Recently I was  reading the forums at www.orgasmdenial.com about cock control games. So . . . → Read More: Sissy Assignment – The Secret Word]]>

This is an assignment I posted at my blog www.sensualroleplay.com but I thought it would be a great assignment for my sissies!

I love cock control, orgasm control, tease and denial. I also love cock games and orgasm denial assignments. Recently I was  reading the forums at www.orgasmdenial.com about cock control games. So I decided to start creating assignments and games for my cock control and denial boys. In this new section I’ll post assignments for you to follow for self denial but I would also like to be involved. You can do this by adopting the assignments and then posting a report in the comments section under each assignment. Some will be teasing and denial, cock chastity and other fun games that control your orgasm. Sound like fun?

The Secret Word Game

One idea that I read and decided to modify was giving someone ELSE control without them even knowing it! Here’s how it works…

I post a secret word and you are not permitted to cum unless someone says that word. You can engage in conversation with the hope that someone will say the word BUT if they don’t then no cummies for you! If they say the secret word then you can cum but it has to be that day. If you miss your chance you have to wait until the word is said again. You can then move on to the next word or assignment.

Read the rest CLICK HERE

After you read the instructions come back here to post comments. Good luck darlings!

Nothing is more exciting then a well planned sissy assignment or . . . → Read More: How to Have the BEST Sissy Assignments]]>

Let’s face it sissy, you’re not a REAL MAN and therefore the only way you can even remotely get the attention of a sexy woman, like myself, is to perform task for my amusement. I also know how desperately you want to please me, right?

Nothing is more exciting then a well planned sissy assignment or what I refer to as “Sissy Dating”.  Think about it, it really is a type of date because it excites us both! That is IF YOU, sissy, follow the assignment and report correctly.  In this article we will discuss how to arrange and fulfill a successful Sissy Date with Goddess Josephine.

Why do Sissies Crave Humiliation?

The answer to this question is different for everyone. Why are you a sissy in the first place? Let’s start with wiping away any negativity about being a sissy and doing humiliating and degrading task. If it makes your cock or clitty hard, you’re not hurting anyone then go for it!  Don’t second guess or sabotage a good time.  This could easily happen once you realize what a great time you’re having and you might think *you like it TOO much!* Try to keep it all in perspective. It’s just another aspect of you and having a good time. Don’t engage me in Sissy Dating Sissy Assignments unless you’re ready to have fun.

The first step in our special Mistress & Sissy relationship is for you to decide what will make the relationship the absolute BEST for you;

1) Do enjoy public or private humiliation?

2) What limits do I really have?

3) How long do I want a hot sissy scene to last? Will the assignment span over days or just a few hours?

4) How long should the humiliation last before permitted to orgasm? Is orgasm important in your sissy assignment?

5) Will I use toys and clothes in my assignment?

Once you know what would excite YOU then you need to be willing to PLEASE Me IF you want the fantasy to be hot. What’s hot for me is;

1) Being in control really! This means no cummies and touching without permission.

2) Email follow up and reporting. I want to hear how nervous, horny and excited you are.  Take me a picture and email to me with a little note.

3) Suggest hot ideas based on what you know about me. You’ve read my blog and or have new ideas that you think I may enjoy. I’ve love to hear them! Contact me here

Options for Sissy Dating – Sissy Assignments

• Sissy Assignments with Phone Sex Calls – This relationship begins with a phone session to discuss what we both enjoy. Afterwards you email me, I give you assignment and you follow up via email or with another call. Most call to get a reward!
• Sissy Assignments by Email & Audio – Purchase an $80.00 audio CLICK HERE Once your purchase is made you must email me or IM me on yahoo messenger ( empress.josephine ) I need the email you used for purchase to approve your purchase. After we can arrange a custom audio assignment just for you and a follow-up email.
• Sissy Assignment via Sexy Texting - Want more interaction but can’t talk on the phone? www.sexytexting.com purchase a yahoo messenger or skype text session. Make sure I’m available, order your text session and then email or IM to set up. We can sissy chat, shop online together and I can give you a sissy assignment. You then can follow up via Sexy Texting, email or phone.

Favorite Sissy Assignments

These are just a few of my favorite assignment types. The possibilities are unlimited based on your limits.

Panty Shopping & Toy Shopping – We can do this online together discreetly or I can send you on a public humiliation trip. It can be subtle or wild!

Sissy Slut Shows Off - Let me teach you naughty things you can do for me and my mistress friends on cam!

Tampon Period Training – This includes a trip to purchase and then instructions on doing just like a REAL GIRL!

Walking, Talking and Being a Sissy – Learn how to walk in heels, talk like a girl and many other things like sitting to pee.

Complete Transformations – Step by step, ongoing emasculation. You’ll have to be committed to the time it takes to do this. YES it can be as real as you want it to be!

Have any questions? Email me

I wanted to start this thread for all the pretty little sissies out there that are married or encumbered in situations where you must hide your special needs from others.

You all have had ups and downs, dealing with emotions and confusion. Let’s face it, its not something you . . . → Read More: Your Sissy World – Being Safe]]>

Lets Talk about YOU

I wanted to start this thread for all the pretty little sissies out there that are married or encumbered in situations where you must hide your special needs from others.

You all have had ups and downs, dealing with emotions and confusion. Let’s face it, its not something you can share with just anyone. At the same time you realize this is part of you and its not going away. Finding balance and happiness in your sissy world is essential. This thread is very important. In fact I urge you to also post comments at www.humiliatedsissy.com/blog – I will post it there and please copy and paste. I’ll post the link below.

So here are some questions but feel free to share what you need and if you have tips please chime in.

1) Does any of your family or friends know about your sissy?

2) have you ever shared your sissy with someone real time- they saw you dressed? Explain if yes.

3) do you have a lot of clothes or items? Where do you keep them?

4) Do you shop in stores or only online?

5) are you comfortable with your sissy or do you often have feelings of guilt and try to fight it?

6) are you able to define your sissy and keep your boy self separate or do you find this difficult to do?

7) If it were a perfect world and you could paint the perfect picture for YOUR world what would it be?

Lets talk about it.

Ok girls it’s time for another exciting assignment to challenge your inner girl. If you have time over a weekend then take this sissy challenge and make me proud! Of course I expect you to post all the dirty little details here for ALL to see. If you have . . . → Read More: Sissy Assignment – Plugged Stripper Sissy]]>

Be my Stripper Sissy

Ok girls it’s time for another exciting assignment to challenge your inner girl. If you have time over a weekend then take this sissy challenge and make me proud! Of course I expect you to post all the dirty little details here for ALL to see. If you have pictures even better.

I like to call this challenge “The Plugged Stripper Sissy in Training“. It will require you to have a “pussy plug” and if needed something to hold that plug in unless it’s inflatable and can be inflated to remain in the girl hole. If it vibrates even better! I love vibrating inflatable plugs. If you’re not sure what to get just email me here and I’m happy to help you.

You then need a trip to the drug store to purchase a disposable douche. You’ll need to make that girlie hole nice and fresh. It’s not rocket science to figure out how to use it. (wink) If you can hold it for 5 minutes it will make you clean and fresh!

You may want to get a little lube for the plug but don’t get carried away and let it slip out.

After your shaved and clean inside and out you’ll insert your pussy plug. Now put on your girlie attire including HIGH HEELS. If you don’t have a garter strap you’ll use your panties… you take 10 one dollar bills. You place them on the floor at your feet. You then need to put on some sexy stripper music and begin to dance. You need to really bump and grind those hips girls! Every 3 min you squat down really slow and sexy to pick up one of the bills. Rub the bill all over your titties and then place it in your panties. Do this every 3 min until the bills are gone. Each time you place a bill in your panties you’ll say “Thank you Sir!”

The object of this sissy challenge is to do this without the plug slipping out. You need to clinch those tushy cheeks tight and keep it in. If you successfully do the challenge then you are permitted to rub the clitty until you cum in your panties and all over your earn money! You then dry the money and the next day you take your 10 dollars and buy yourself a pretty pair of of new panties.

If the plug slips out then no squirty for you. You must take your 10 dollars and buy me an Amazon gift card to email josephine@enchantrixempire.com Next week you get to try again until you get it right.

Good luck girls!

If you’d like to read others post and network with other humiliated sissies hop over to my group “Humiliated Sissy” at www.enchantrixempire.com Once you sign up go to groups and look for Humiliated Sissy.

Or post your report below in comments. I love getting comments from my sissies!